Usually the build up is worse and so the day flows. I know the body has memory and with it the remembering the tears will flow as well. With its rituals and gentle rhythm...purple and white flowers, birthday cake for a life not realized, sadness for a life lived that ended to soon. Today I honor my first born and my mother-in-law who died September 2nd 2004. Aiden Bennett and Pauline Julia Lamarche we know you are living and laughing in the stars together.